Most of us have experienced the intense emotional and sexual attraction notorious for sweeping away our common sense when we fall in love. While this experience is very common, the real challenge is that many confuse “falling in love” with “being infatuated with lust”. Simply said, what is it about lust that awakens our instincts … Continued
This is a challenging Post to write, especially in a Blog format, since I can only brush the surface of this very complex and adversarial personality disorder, also known as Anti Social Personality Disorder (ASPD). We all suffer, individually and as a society, from the devastating effects of sociopathy. This is why I believe it is important to … Continued
We all know the weird feeling of someone telling us something while our personal experience doesn’t quite match the words uttered. This often leaves us doubting ourselves and not sure of what is real and what is not; if we are being gaslit or if our radar is off. While sometimes our neuroception (the perception … Continued
Every organism must have healthy and functional boundaries if it is to survive, let alone thrive. When their genetic code has not been altered and there is no toxicity preventing their optimal functioning, cellular membranes instinctively know; what to let in as nutrients; how to use these nutrients to maintain and grow the cell; how … Continued
« Brainspotting & Addiction » Woodland Hills, CA. July 12 & 13, 2019 Do Your Clients Struggle With Substance And/Or Behavioral Addictions? If You Are Phase 1 Brainspotting Trained, This 14 CEs Training Is For You. Your Clients Will Thank You For It! Dr. Roby Abeles, Psy.D. is offering a 2 day workshop which will cover a wealth of … Continued
Dear Psychotherapist Colleagues, As the name suggests, Brainspotting is a brain-based therapeutic modality which is a powerful add-on to our clinical tool kit. Brainspotting engages both the body and the psyche. In fact, it mends the gap between both. It is an elegant modality which allows direct access to the subcortical brain where traumatic memories … Continued
As we’ve seen in this video, Brainspotting is a powerful brain-based therapeutic modality which allows access to the subcortical layers of the brain; which consists of the limbic system and the brain stem —the areas of the brain where emotional, sensory experiences are stored and processed, and instinctual primal energies stem from. True healing requires … Continued
Dr. Karl Pillemer, Ph.D. is a gerontologist who interviewed over 700 elders (ranging from 60 years old to over 100 years old.) on the different aspects of long-term relationships. “The Experts”, as he refers to them, are as diverse in cultural background and life experiences as our 50 States. Their advices on love, intimate relationship … Continued
Renowned author and international speaker doctor Gabor Mate widens our understanding of the causes and effects addictive behaviors have in the lives of the people suffering from it, and of the countless others whom are close and far from them. Certain forms of addictions are unequivocally and rapidly destroying lives —think, among many, heroin, cocaine, … Continued
When we are willing to share and process our inner life with a trusted therapist, we experience a genuine emotional relief of what weighs us down. As the inner journey of therapy proceeds, we soon realize that while our challenges are very personal, our existence is also weaved in a complex web of interactions and … Continued